The Truth About Building Wealth (dirty little secret)

by on June 18, 2012

Learn to Earn

Here at Kung Fu Finance I endeavor to expose the truth of how wealth-building really works (and how falling prey to hype such as “buy this ONE stock and make 300% in 6 months!” really doesn’t work).

Today is one such occasion, and I would like to expose a dirty little secret of wealth-building…

A few weeks ago I talked about the #1 predictor to your future wealth (your wealth chest or net investible income, commonly referred to as your “savings”) and I specifically discussed why I dislike the word “savings” so much when it’s used to describe that magic and important number — because it focuses on only half of the equation:

What you produce – what you consume = Savings “your wealth chest”
or
Earning – Spending = Savings “your wealth chest”

Treasure Chest

Your Awesome Wealth Chest

Now don’t get me wrong—saving is an important part of building wealth. If you spend away every cent you earn, you will quickly find yourself flat broke, or worse, deep in debt (believe me, I’ve been there!).

Learning to “save”, therefore (which really means “not spend”) is a crucial part of basic money management—just look at the many famous Hollywood stars who have earned millions upon millions of dollars but have still declared bankruptcy because they couldn’t master that skill and instead spent every cent they took in:

Famous Bankrupt Stars

Famous Bankrupt Stars—they earned a lot, but spent even more

Ergo, saving (“the art of not spending”) is very important.

And a million and one websites and resources attempt to show you “how to save”, or more accurately “how to not spend too much money” on the things and experiences you desire (believe me, I’ve perused them all in my pre-accredited-investor life…but more on that in a moment!).

These range from coupon sites to wholesale-membership-type companies like Costco or Sam’s Club to daily deal websites or “Groupons”…there are sites for specific types of people who want to get the best deal on “stuff” (FrugalMom, FrugalDad, MoneySavingMama, etc…) and sites that profess to get you the best deal on money (“zero interest for 6 months!”).

And yes, this “not spending” (e.g. being frugal and “saving”) is vitally important in learning to build wealth and grow your wealth chest.

But, if you look at the inputs to the equation, you can see that spending (or its inverse, “not spending”, so commonly referred to as “saving”) is only half of the equation…it’s only one of the inputs:

Earning – Spending = “your wealth chest”

And this is my beef with calling the net result “savings”, because by calling that magic number “savings”, as is so commonly done around the world, we neglect the other equally important half of the input to the equation:

What you produce (Your “Earnings”)

And I think you’ll agree with me that earning is a pretty important piece of the puzzle!

In fact, it is one of the ways I was able to go from being $10,000 in debt to a bonafide “accredited investor” in under ten years. (I know, it’s not 6 months like the sexy-yet-hype-y hot stock tip I mentioned earlier, but it’s real, and will work for you if you let it!).

This is one of the dirty little secrets of the wealth-building industry (and sadly it’s just one…there are many other dirty little secrets, too): if your spending remains constant, then the more you earn, the more potential you have to build your wealth.

(Duh. It sounds so obvious, right?)

But before you click to close this email and unsubscribe thinking, “I KNEW it! Kung Fu Girl just made millions of dollars per year at some job or business to get out of debt and become wealthy and I’ll never be able to do that!” please hear me out…

That is not the case at all and in fact for several of those years I earned just barely above the poverty line—Kung Fu Guy and I started a business in 2000 called “IdeaWave Systems” and our JOINT revenue our first year was a whopping $50,000 ($25,000 each).

(Now, depending on where you live, this may sound like a decent amount of money…but I assure you, in San Francisco it was NOT. It was barely above the poverty line, which was $27,682 for a single person in 2009 according to the Center for Community Economic Development).

We struggled that first year. (And the next).

We were MASTER cheapskates and could have written the book on “not spending” (saving)—rinsing out plastic baggies and reusing them so we didn’t have to buy more, clipping coupons and eating primarily vegetarian as our grocery budget didn’t allow for steak or salmon or chicken (heck, we barely ate hamburger!), and oh yes, we lived in the ghetto—on 8th and Minna St. affectionately known as “SOMA” (South of Market) which at the time was NOT trendy and cool, not even “up and coming”…just slummy.

We were awakened nightly by riotous street people fighting over abandoned shopping carts and neighbors screaming out of their windows, “Shut up down there!” and the street people shouting back, “No YOU shut up!”. We slept with earplugs and wondered why our parents never came to visit.

We got an A+ in “not spending” that first year…but at most a D- in earning (and that’s being generous). We had so many new skills to learn—as first-time business owners and former engineers we knew how to “do” the work (luckily quite well), but had no idea how to “get” the work.

Marketing? Sales? Not a clue…

It took three long years of consistent execution and under-promising / over-delivering until we built up enough word-of-mouth recommendations to overcome our abysmal lack of marketing and sales expertise, allowing us to finally surpass our pre-business income. Whew.

Though those years were difficult, they were an amazing learning experience.

For in those years, we learned the essence of earning, that crucial second half of the magical wealth equation that is so overlooked by most of society (and all of Wall St.):

Earning = Creating Value for Other People

Because if you hold your spending constant (say you’ve already cut it to the bone and are rinsing out ZipLoc baggies like yours truly…) then the only way to increase your magic number, your wealth chest, is to earn more money.

And the more money you can put into your wealth chest, the more money you will have to invest. It’s that simple (but again, not easy by any means!).

So how on earth do you do that?

This is one of those things that is simple in principle, but extremely difficult in practice…(otherwise we would all be making millions of dollars per year!).

We learned quickly in our business…we earned more money by solving more and more customers’ problems. The more problems we solved, the more value we created for our customers. And the more value we created, the more they paid us.

This is the only true way to earn more money—to create value for other people.

To be clear, customers didn’t care if we made our solutions “fancy” or used the latest slick new programming language or structure to complete their project.

They had one care and one care only—did it solve their problem (for the agreed-upon price that we quoted them)? If it did, and we finished it on time, we had happy customers who were then more than happy to hire us again and tell all of their friends and contacts how wonderful we were, thus giving us that elusive word of mouth marketing.

This is true whether you have a job or a business. In your job, you are working to solve your employer’s problems, and in your business, you are working to solve your customers’ problems.

I wish there was more ink (news, media, etc.) devoted to “how to earn more money” and “how to solve problems” (entrepreneurialism) than there is devoted to “how not to spend money” and “how to be frugal”. While both are important, your earning potential is UNLIMITED, while your “not spending” potential is limited by your basic necessities of life. You have much more opportunity to earn more money than you do to “not spend” money, and yet most people spend hours upon hours clipping coupons and perusing daily deal sites instead of brainstorming how to earn more money and solve people’s problems.

So there you have it…just one more dirty little secret of wealth building!

I encourage you to spend some time this week thinking about how you can earn more money to add to your growing wealth chest! You have so much unique value to share with the world (and be rewarded for!).

To your financial success,

— Kung Fu Girl

 

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Investor Junkie June 19, 2012 at 5:35 pm

Great post and complete agree! It was one of the reasons why I created my blog.

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kungfugirl June 19, 2012 at 8:05 pm

Thank you Larry!

I really appreciate it (and thank you for the post and Twitter mention!). I always wonder how my more “thoughtful” (well, attempt to be thoughtful anyway…) :-) posts will go over instead of the more detailed investment how-to info, but at the end of the day I feel it is so important, and I’m SO glad I’m not alone in thinking so! I love your site by the way, it’s super-cool and I encourage everyone to check it out!

Thanks again!
– KFG

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Honolulu Aunty June 19, 2012 at 7:07 pm

KFG,

This is such a common sense article – it is so true and obvious, and at age almost 60, I am FINALLY getting it!

Investing in real estate is our course of choice, but it is one that requires money since I don’t believe in the no money down, no skin in the game techniques and still expect a solid foundation to grow on.

However, it is tough to grow in real estate because it isn’t like a stock or commodity which is easier to buy low and sell high just by clicking on the “send” button. So, we are currently at a grind in our investing plans.

We could wait until we accrue more funds, but Aunty is an impatient type. Then, just 2 weeks ago, opportunity came in the form of something I have always dreaded – MLM – or multi-level marketing the way Amway, NSA, Nu-Skin, ad nauseam do their sales (Aunty has nothing against the products).

Late last year I enrolled as a LifeVantage distributor because I wanted to help a friend. Good product, okay compensation plan, VERY top heavy with leaders way up the top of the ladder and I felt like a peon who was making them richer. I’ll remain a distributor since I made my money back and continue to take the product because of how it does make me feel better, but I know I won’t get rich from it.

Then 2 weeks ago, I was introduced to a very new company with a product that sells itself – Nerium. It has hit Hawaii (top in sales) like a firestorm, and the rest of the country and world will soon follow.

Somehow, Aunty feels like this is the one that is our ticket to great income and building our beautiful wonderful wealth chest. What is even greater than that is how Uncle has been struck with the company and the product. High hopes, hard work, integrity and being at the right place at the right time will bring us closer to our goals.

Life gives us all opportunities in the strangest ways. I hope everyone finds their way to build their wealth chest with greater income – that dirty little secret to wealth building that is there if we just open open our eyes.

Mahalo KFG!!

Aunty

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kungfugirl June 19, 2012 at 8:26 pm

Hi Aunty!

Thank you for your nice comment, and good luck with Nerium– it definitely sounds intriguing (what a name!). Right out of Star Trek…

Yes, I hear this from RE investors frequently (and have been there myself)…say you have $100,000 to invest and decide to buy 2 or 4 houses; once your money is sunk into your properties and the cash flow begins to flow to you as income, it’s wildly exciting but usually it’s a “dribble” at first and takes several years (and rent appreciation) for it to begin “gushing”.

And in the meantime, impatient investors like yourself (and me too) :) are thinking, “isn’t there any way to speed this up? I *LOVE* this cash flow, but how can I do more of these deals? If I only had 10 houses I would be soooo happy!”

(Does this sound familiar?) LOL

So you go to work to bring in more income to buy more properties (or other investments) and continue to work on building that wealth chest.

Thank you for sharing your story, and good luck with Nerium! Just my standard caution here…check out the company (particularly the people– the founders and leaders) to make sure it’s legit and has a good, strong, balance sheet and business plan, and make sure they invest in you and train you very, very well. I don’t think “all MLM is evil”, but unfortunately (like many industries…) they have had their share of scams/etc. so just be careful.

Good luck, and please keep us posted on how it goes!
– KFG

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John W June 19, 2012 at 7:09 pm

I really like how you post about things that most sites would “assume” that you know. I also like how you are very personable and respond to many comments (I dont know how you find the time). These are 2 qualities that will make your kungfugirl site long lived and well used. As far as this post goes, I would recommend going to functions that encourage creativity and ideas that can add value (to your wealth chest). For example I belong to an I&E club (inventors and entrepreneurs) that allows people to network and share ideas. I was at this meeting where our main speaker (Dr. Waters) was talking about his clinic when he mentioned that he would like a vending machine that dispensed healthy food. Then a person in the front said that she was trying to start a vending machine business. Another person said they made healthy snacks that they would like to vend. And the next person said they had several hazel nut trees on their property and they wanted to get together and make snacks. All of these connections came from just one meeting. If they can do it then so can you! Just to let you know, this meeting took place in rural Wisconsin, imagine what could happen in a more populated area where you have many people to bounce ideas off of.

Enjoy your time in MI,
John

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kungfugirl June 19, 2012 at 8:40 pm

Hi John,

Thank you so much for your nice comment, and what an awesome example! I love your I&E club and am going to look for something like that here in Michigan and in California (and if there’s nothing there, maybe I can start one– it’s a wonderful idea and I love the focus on inventing and entrepreneurship…how fun to meet other people and share exciting ideas like that!). Very cool, and thank you very much for sharing!

Yes, I love connecting with you all so I try my best to comment back (although I’m not always perfect, and sometimes it takes me a week or so depending on what I’ve got going on), but I always read every single one and really, really appreciate them.

It’s one of the main reasons I started this website– to form a community so that we can all learn from each other, because everyone has such good ideas (not just me blathering on all of the time!). :)

Thank you very much!
– KFG

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Tutu June 19, 2012 at 10:18 pm

Aloha, KFG!

Unable to contribute strategies on expanding the wealth chest, because in our domain, it’s left to TutuKane (head honcho), but may I share life long habits that have never made me lack for anything even cash flow.

As an educator, my students were always made conscious of recycling and the misuse of precious natural products (trees, plants, minerals) just as my parents drilled into us that waste (especially food) was sinful when someone faraway was starving.

As a mother of 3, managing our average earnings through careful, purposeful, and creative planning was achieved and never associated with “frugality.” We’ve never driven a Porsche, rarely eat lobster, never wear diamonds, or crave epicurean delights.

We are far from being “cheap” either and contribute regularly to church, charities, educational and medical institutions, and cultural organizations. We recycle with discipline and commitment, I sew my own clothing and furniture accessories, create my own wall art and gifts for friends, grow some of our vegetables, herbs, fruits, florals…

So while none of this may enhance an investment plan, it helps me to know that we’re doing all right here in our modest little domain, but nevertheless, I wish to recognize your altruistic spirit to help the 5K plus subscribers as commendable and an exceptional gift, which is hopefully appreciated by those who will reap the rewards of education, disciplined planning, and earnest effort through your personal site and mentoring.

Hugs from East Honolulu,
Tutu

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kungfugirl June 22, 2012 at 8:55 am

Mahalo for your nice comment Tutu!

Yes, rinsing out Ziploc bags is not only good for the household budget, it’s great for the environment, too! :-)

– KFG

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Peggy J. June 20, 2012 at 9:40 am

Great post! I love the simplicity of your equation “Earning = Creating Value for Other People.” It is so true. Your blog is inspiration. Thanks.

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kungfugirl June 22, 2012 at 8:53 am

Thank you Peggy!

I really appreciate your nice words, and thanks very much for your nice comment!

– KFG

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IvanH. July 16, 2012 at 4:22 pm

Hi KFG,
This is a good reminder/refresher. This is a fundamental lesson that really needs to be taught in schools. The “education” system in the U.S. is sorely lacking. It’s no wonder that people are in debt and/or barely scraping by. Thank you for voicing the truth about building wealth! =)

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kungfugirl July 17, 2012 at 12:27 pm

Thank you Ivan! I appreciate your nice comment!
– KFG

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Jackson Trigg September 23, 2012 at 8:38 am

Great article, totally true that there is an out of balance focus on penny pinching vs. increasing your current income. One must consider the opportunity cost of how much time one invests in couponing, minor cost cutting, etc. and whether that time could be better spent brainstorming about or working at increasing one’s current income. Thanks KFG.

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